Inspirational Speaker

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Book Hyla at your next event or engage­ment and hear her inspir­ing mes­sage of hope…

On Easter Sun­day, 2003, dur­ing my sev­enth month of preg­nancy with our sec­ond daugh­ter, my 17-month-old and I watched as my hus­band, 29, slid down the kitchen counter and lay motion­less on our white-tiled floor. One minute he was laugh­ing, and thirty-five min­utes later, Erik was pro­nounced dead. I wanted to know why. Why was I sud­denly a 29-year-old widow with two babies? Why did this hap­pen? What I’ve come to real­ize, though, is that life hands each of us dif­fi­cult expe­ri­ences. Some­where between birth and death, every­one knows loss, depres­sion, abuse, divorce, or addic­tion. For me, it’s not about the WHY any longer—it’s about the WHAT. What will I do with my experiences?

Hyla Molander, Happy Headshot

Hyla Molan­der, Inspi­ra­tional Speaker

Through speak­ing and writ­ing, I remind oth­ers that they, too, can cre­ate all that they desire, regard­less of their cir­cum­stances. Once I was a preg­nant widow, but now I am a hap­pily mar­ried wife, mother of four chil­dren, pro­fes­sional speaker, author, pho­tog­ra­pher, mod­er­a­tor of a wid­owed forum, rela­tion­ship and trans­for­ma­tion expert, social media expert, and life coach. My recently pub­lished photo and inspi­ra­tion book, Finding Light, encour­ages all to find the light in their dark­est times.

My inter­views and speak­ing engage­ments include The Healthy­Place Men­tal Health Radio Show, Writer’s Digest, The Cre­ative Penn, The Mama Mono­logues, On-camera with Mar­ket­ing the Muse, The National Asso­ci­a­tion of Mem­oir Writ­ers, The South­ern Cal­i­for­nia Writer’s Con­fer­ence, The National Wid­ow­hood Con­fer­ence, and the San Fran­cisco Litquake Festival.

Writ­ten fea­tures include The Good Men Project Mag­a­zine, Busi­ness Week, Gal­ley Cat, Sin­gle Mom Seek­ing, Life360, Marin Mag­a­zine, and ten first-person fea­tures on Scribd​.com, where I have accu­mu­lated 90k reads in only 9 months.

Top­ics I Speak About:

Find­ing Hope, Blend­ing Fam­i­lies, Grief, Par­ent­ing through Grief, Cre­at­ing a New Life, Post Trau­matic Stress Dis­or­der, EMDR, Ther­apy (tra­di­tional, energy, and play-based ther­apy for chil­dren), Impor­tance of Organ Dona­tion, Tran­scen­dence, Mar­riage, Rela­tion­ships, Online Dat­ing, Find­ing Love, Pub­lish­ing, Alter­na­tive Forms of Pub­lish­ing, Mak­ing Mean­ing with Mem­oir, Social Media, Expand­ing Your Reach through Online Tools, Grow­ing Your Read­er­ship with Scribd​.com, and the Power of Humor.

This is my Drop Dead Life.

When not speak­ing, lov­ing on my Match​.com hus­band, or chas­ing my children—ages 3, 7, 9, and 13—I’m busy com­plet­ing my forth­com­ing memoir, Drop Dead Life: A Preg­nant Widow’s Heart­felt and Often Comic Jour­ney through Death, Birth, and Rebirth, which has had direct, un-agented inter­est from edi­tors at two of the largest pub­lish­ing houses.

 


Read On For Live Events Where You Can Meet Hyla, Plus Record­ings Of Past Events…


Scribd Love Affair at Southern California Writer’s Conference

Posted by on Feb 10, 2011 in BLOG, Live Events & Appearances, Publicity, & Interviews | 9 comments

My Scribd love affair con­tin­ues to deepen month after month. This week­end, I’m hon­ored to return to the fab­u­lous South­ern Cal­i­for­nia Writ­ers Con­fer­ence where I’ll be speak­ing about Grow­ing Your Read­er­ship with Scribd​.com. You’ll know why I love telling other writ­ers how I’ve built my writ­ing plat­form when you read what Michael Steven Gre­gory, Exec­u­tive Direc­tor of The South­ern Cal­i­for­nia Writ­ers Con­fer­ence, wrote about my phe­nom­e­nal Scribd​.com...

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Hyla Molander in The Mama Monologues

Posted by on Dec 21, 2010 in BLOG, Dating For Widows, Death Of Spouse, DROP DEAD LIFE, Live Events & Appearances, Publicity, & Interviews, Sudden Death | 7 comments

Last month, I had the honor of read­ing in “The Mama Mono­logues” at Corte Madera Book Pas­sage, along with NY Times best-selling author Kelly Cor­ri­gan and many other tal­ented Writ­ing Mamas. Spe­cial thanks to Dawn Yun, founder of The Writ­ing Mamas, for mak­ing this laugh­ter and tear-filled event pos­si­ble. We raised over $5,000 for Abelina Mag­ana, a North­ern Cal­i­for­nia mother of three who was shot 15 times and lived to tell. If you would like to make a con­tri­bu­tion to Abelina and her chil­dren,...

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See Me Speak In Newport Beach, CA At The SoCal Writers’ Conference

Posted by on Aug 20, 2010 in BLOG, Live Events & Appearances | 5 comments

I’ll be lead­ing a work­shop enti­tled: Scribd Suc­cess: How to Accu­mu­late Read­ers on Scribd​.com at the South­ern Cal­i­for­nia Writ­ers’ Con­fer­ence in New­port Beach. The con­fer­ence runs from Sep­tem­ber 24th — 26th, 2010. There’s still space avail­able, so get your tick­ets and let’s hang out at the best writ­ing con­fer­ence in...

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Southern California Writers’ Conference

Posted by on Feb 23, 2010 in BLOG, Live Events & Appearances | 1 comment

The red taxi drove away, leav­ing me there, alone, for three days of writ­ing, lec­tures, read-and-critique work­shops, author pan­els, edi­tor insights, net­work­ing, and the nerve-wracking one-on-ones with lit­er­ary agents. Already, I wanted to board the plane back to San Francisco. Only days before, my mem­oir, DROP DEAD LIFE, a preg­nant widow’s poignant, heart­felt, and often comic jour­ney through death, birth, and rebirth, had been rejected, via email, by yet another lit­er­ary agent. Like most rejec­tions,...

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